Welcome to “defeating the purpose”! I’m Eli Arguello and I’m here to explore the “36 Questions that Lead to Love,” one question at a time with my closest friends, family, and mentors. The “36 questions”, originally written and researched by Arthur Aron, are meant to make two strangers get to know each other on a new, intimate level through a mix of fun and vulnerable questions. I wanted to go through this list, but the idea of answering all these questions with one single person is incredibly intimidating to me, so I'm completing it with a new person for each question.